As a parent, knowing what to look for and then creating the right approach to help correct a problem can be essential. Identifying a possible issue and then implementing a solution to resolve it can be instrumental in your child’s development.
Below are some warning signs or indications that there might be a problem and some suggestions to create the right path or line of communication in order to take steps to fix it.
Recognizing potential dangers that are often hidden in plain sight is essential for protecting children. This section highlights everyday items that, though they may appear harmless, can actually pose significant risks to kids’ health and safety. By staying informed about the dangers that can be concealed in ordinary objects, you can take proactive steps to safeguard your family and ensure their well-being.
Vapes
Portable devices used for inhaling substances such as nicotine or THC present health risks, including the potential for addiction and respiratory problems.
Drinking Games
Beer pong and other drinking games can promote excessive alcohol consumption, leading to serious consequences such as accidents, risky sexual behavior, academic difficulties, impaired social skills, substance abuse and mental health challenges.
Glass Pipes
Glass pipes, which come in various colors and designs, are often used for smoking marijuana and may appear as innocent decorations on a teenager’s shelf.
Incense
Incense is sometimes used to cover up the smell of marijuana smoke. Additionally, other room deodorizers or air sanitizers may also be used.
Inhalants
Many household products contain chemicals that can cause a mind-altering effect when inhaled. New users, typically between the ages of 12 and 15, risk “sudden sniffing death” and possible permanent brain damage.
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Sploof
A sploof is a homemade device used to mask the smell of cannabis smoke. It is typically made by stuffing a paper towel or toilet paper roll with dryer sheets, which help to filter and mask the odor when the smoke is exhaled through the tube.
Custom Cans
Containers with hidden compartments are readily available for purchase online and come in a variety of everyday items, such as shaving cans with removable bottoms, water bottles, and soda cans making them difficult to detect.
Handmade Pipes
Homemade cannabis pipes can be created using a variety of everyday household items, such as soda cans, aluminum foil, water bottles, or even fruits and vegetables. These improvised pipes are often crafted by individuals looking for a quick, low-cost alternative to store-bought smoking devices.
Edibles
Be mindful of edibles that resemble everyday candy, particularly those with a cannabis leaf logo. These treats are often made to look like familiar snacks, which can make them easy to mistake for regular candy. However, they contain THC or other cannabis-based substances.
Hidden Flasks
Just like this hairbrush, alcohol-hidden flasks are designed to look like ordinary everyday items. These discreet containers can resemble flip-flops with secret compartments, lotion bottles, tampon cases, giving them a deceptive appearance making them easy to conceal.
Cannabis 420 Posters
420, 4:20, and 4/20 are symbols of cannabis culture, representing both a specific time for cannabis use and a day—April 20th—dedicated to celebrating cannabis consumption. On this day, people gather to honor cannabis.
There’s no one-size-fits-all approach, especially when discussing alcohol, drugs, and gambling. What you share with a 9-year-old will be different from what you say to a 15-year-old. A strong, clear no-use message is the most effective way for parents to protect their kids. Remember that Children can’t absorb everything they need to know from just one conversation – multiple smaller talks are more effective than one “big talk”.
Preschool
By the time they reach preschool, many children have seen adults drinking, whether in person, on TV, or online. These early experiences can influence their future choices as they eagerly absorb and interpret what they observe, shaping their perceptions of what constitutes “good” and “bad” behavior.
Ages 5-9
At this stage, children start to develop a greater curiosity about the world beyond their home. It’s an ideal time to talk about topics like alcohol, drugs and gambling, highlighting their risks and consequences. When you and your child come across intoxicated individuals on TV or in public, take the opportunity to discuss the dangers of these behaviors.
Ages 10-12
As kids begin to assert their independence and question authority, they still look to you for guidance. Tweens understand the importance of rules and boundaries, so ensure they are clear on yours and the consequences for breaking them. Talk through real-life situations and solutions, like providing a way for them to contact you if they find themselves in a tough situation. When discussing topics like alcohol, drugs and gambling, focus on providing factual information rather than instilling fear. Keep in mind, this can be a challenging time for tweens, so be sure to offer plenty of positive reinforcement and praise to build their confidence and resilience in the face of peer pressure.
Ages 13-18
Teens may have friends who drink, use drugs, or gamble. Discuss the dangers, such as drunk driving or legal trouble. Let them know it’s okay to opt out, even if others are participating. Encourage them to consider the impact of these behaviors on society. Trust them to make responsible choices and support them in handling peer pressure. When they return home after spending time with friends, ask about their day with genuine interest. If you learn they’ve been involved in these activities, approach the conversation honestly.
Ages 18+
Even as your child grows older, your support remains important. College students frequently face situations involving drinking and drug use. Before they start, review the college’s track record on these issues and have a conversation with them about it. Remind them of the dangers of binge drinking, alcohol poisoning and drug use. Keep the lines of communication open and stay connected with your young adult to ensure you can offer the best support.
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It’s time to channel your inner detective! As parents or guardians, we have an important role in keeping our kids safe, which means staying alert to what’s going on in their lives.
Clues are all around us, from unexpected behavior changes to new friendships. However, it’s important to remember that not every change is a cause for concern. Sometimes kids explore and try new things as they navigate the challenges of growing up.
So, how do we know when to step in? It’s about striking a balance between staying attentive and giving our kids the freedom to learn from their own experiences.
We don’t have to face it alone! By teaming up with other parents, educators and community groups, we can build a strong support system. Together, we can exchange tips, resources and even share a few laughs as we navigate the ups and downs of parenting.
So lets embrace our inner detectives and work together to keep our kids safe and sound!
Intervention Resources
Having Tough Conversations
Partnership to End Addiction
Local Treatment/ Support Resources:
Hope for Youth
631.691.5100 • 631.389.1080 (Night Line)
Beacon Family Wellness Center
631.422.7676
Monday – Friday 9am to 9pm